Posted on Tuesday 21 August 2007
“My husband comes home, eats and goes straight to his computer. He is there all night and only comes to bed when he is knackered. I feel like he is a piece of the furniture. I cannot seem to get his attention. It is really begining to bother me.”
Ever considered there may be reasons why he does that. Before you do anything, first examine everything else. If you think there are no other reasons for his withdrawal, then play his game.
- Go on MSN and chat him up
- Ask to play a 2 player game with him
- Bet you can beat him at his game
- Send him raunchy pictures of you implying things to come
And if all fails - UNPLUG him!
16 Sep 2008 om 11:18
My husband did the same thing - came home from work, straight to his computer, not speaking. We stopped going out as a couple. I loved him - but he was so boring. I even told him, I would meet someone new - that’s how frustrating our relationship was. Then I found out he had joined a dating site last Christmas! I went totally mad and smashed his laptop computer up. I waited for him to get home from work - as he walked into our living room, I threw all the Christmas tree baubles at him. I’m not a violent person and I never lose my temper easily - but he had pushed me, to my breaking point by joining an online dating site.
An old boyfriend of mine had been in my head for years -I decided to divorce my boring, selfish husband - and get MY life back in order again. I’m now very happy - I want to say Thanks to the Astor sisters who helped me reunite with my old flame.
I love this blog and have saved it as a bookmark.
23 Sep 2008 om 17:21
Unfortunately when we begin ignoring each other, it is the beginning of the end unless we stop it before it is too late. Sometimes, there is very little we can do because after all it takes 2 to tango and if one person does not want to dance… well no tango!
It is really nice to hear that you managed to get your life back. It is never easy and takes strength and perseverance. Congratulations on your new life. (and glad to hear that you like this blog!)