To be truthful, I have had to prioritise and with just having had twins, you can probably understand my lack of time. Things are finally coming together and although it may be sometime before I post on a very regular basis, I have to start from somewhere and so here I go.

Watch this space for further posts.

Perhaps on a less interesting note, I have tried to take a look at web hosting providers to see if I can provide you with a better service. I was looking for the best vps hosting that I could find but it made me wonder if it would make much of a difference, especially considering how recently I did not mantain my blog. I did do as much reading as I possibly could but unfortunately bar basic usuage I am pretty much in the dark with technology.

So moving on to things that I do understand, I promise that I will do my utmost to keep Cupidopolis updated at least on a regular basis.

If it were the other way around, where he took his rings off when he went out, I might say perhaps. But his taking it off at home may simply be that it is true that wearing jewelry might not be his thing. The fact is that he wears it when he goes out and this is probably his way of showing his respect towards you by wearing his wedding ring. Stop worrying about his being unfaithful and enjoy the fact that he wants to show the world that he is married to you.

In today’s day and age we are all health & green focused and it would not be unusual to find that most resolutions will be health focused or world focused. Now it is all very well to say that as of today, I will eat my 5 a day every day, walk everywhere and catch buses instead of drive, quit smoking and drinking and lose weight in the process. Truth is if you currently don’t do any of these, well suddenly doing all this will be an impossible chore. If you actually manage to maintain your resolution until the end of the week I would be majorly impressed. It is always far better to chose one resolution and stick by it no matter what, even when the going gets tough. And it will get tough. After all, if it were easy, you would not need to strengthen your resolve. And only when it has become part and parcel, should you attempt to add another resolution. And if you think you cracked it in a week… think again! The minimum amount of time it will take before it can be considered habitual is 9 weeks. Having said that I believe it is better to be prudent and give it a minimum of 3 months. And even then you need to keep a watchful eye. After all it is always easier to slip into a bad habit. Usually because bad habits taste betters, are easier or simply more fun!!

I wish you the very best with your resolution(s) and hope that your find the strength and perseverance to stick to it!

And in case you read this at some point in the future… now is as good time as any to make a resolution. The trick is to start NOW… not tomorrow… not next week… NOW!!

Good Luck

With a wedding you book the date, hall, buy the clothes, wedding favors, order food etc.

Same goes for Christmas (date is fixed and usually so is place – otherwise you would not be stressing), so you need to fit in buying / ordering the food, buying the presents (before Christmas eve – draw up a list) and planning it out. Don’t be afraid to ask for help. After all it is a time for family… and sharing the chores gives you all more time together to do fun stuff!!

Now for me to take my own advice!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

For starters, I don’t think this should be about changing his mind. Perhaps there is a reason that he does not want one. For example rings can be dangerous if you work in carpentry. It could be deeper underlying things such as not wanting to be tied down. If this is the case, you really need to speak. So start by finding out why he does not want a ring. It might be a perfectly acceptable reason.

Once you have spoken about it. You can explain how it is symbolic and traditional to exchange rings. If it is about style, you could show him a catalogue of mens wedding rings. It does not even have to be gold and perhaps you can have a matching one. You could also consider perhaps exchanging a watch in lieu of a ring. You do have options, but you need to find out why he does not want a ring first!

Good Luck and Congratulations!

As long as you are happy with the way you deal with your emotions, then that is great. The only exception would be with suppression. The reason is that you keep suppressing and supressing, till one day the smallest thing would just be too much to handle and it all comes out. It can be much harder to handle then. So do find a way to deal with your emotions whether by talking about it, writing a journal or even just having a good cry!

Breast size really can range from completely flat chested to back achingly big. No matter what size someone is, their breasts will fall into one of the categories of too big / too small / too droopy / too unnatural / etc.

In fact most breasts are not even equally sized. Often the difference is minimal but sometimes the difference could be a couple of cup sizes or more.

The truth is that nature intended breasts for feeding infants, and no matter what natural size you are… you will be able to breast feed. Breasts also keep changing over time. And as for the talk of men prefering bigger breasts to small ones… that is all it is… talk. Men are simply happy with breasts, no matter the size.

It is not easy to learn to love our bodies with all the media portrays but by learning to accept our bodies and learning to love our bodies, it will make us enjoy our bodies more. It will in turn lead us to leading a happier life.