Christmas!

Christmas is a time for giving. Giving needs not be material. You do not need to spend money to give. It can really be the thought that counts. Things like Breakfast in bed, a warm bath in candle light, fixing that thing you have been meaning to fix, a surprise picnic, visiting friends and family, etc can really make someones day.

Also remember that Christmas is a time “for giving”. Try to forgive and forget. Use Christmas as an excuse to make peace. If we cannot make peace with our friends and family, how can we expect no wars?

May your Christmas be blessed and full of forgiveness too.

Spelling & Grammar

Please use correct spelling and grammar when submitting your comments and questions. I will not approve or answer questions which are grammatically incorrect or very badly mispelt. I find them hard to read and almost impossible to understand. And I refuse to lower the standard of Cupidopolis by publishing them. Nor will I take the waste of time necessary to correct them.

Thank you for your co-operation.

Demographics Please

If when you post a question you can include the following details it will enable me to tailor my response specifically to your situation. Each problem can vary depening upon certain criteria.

  • Your Age
  • Your Sex

You can add your details at the end of your question. They do not need to be a part of the question. Do also be as specific and as concise as you possibly can be.

I look forward to hearing from you.

8th Anniversary

It is our 8th Wedding Anniversary. To be truthful, I never thought I would ever be here. I used to be rather cynical of Love.

It has taken a bit of take and a lot of give. But if you learn the meaning of share (not equally of course – you give more than you get), then having a relationship almost becomes a piece of cake.

Honestly, if I can be married for 8 years anyone can do it. I really am not the easiest person to live with. You would be surprised how often I find I almost cannot live with myself!! (I admit I am over exagerating a tad!!)

Love

Do you believe in Love?

Do you have a good relationship?

What are the highlights in your relationship? And the downsides?

Are you married? Or going to get married? Or do you never want to get married?

Let me know who my readers are. I want to adapt my website for my visitors.

Privacy & Personal Correspondance

I am afraid that at present I am unable to enter into personal correspondance. All questions and advice is subject to being published here at Cupidopolis. I will not publish your email addresses, but I will need your email to advise you that your question has been responded to. However, do feel free to use Nom de Plumes or Nicknames.

Invitation to post your questions

This is an invitation to submit any questions which you may need help. Whether you are looking for help in the love department or help in your career or even just a shoulder to cry on. Drop me a line, I will always be pleased to listen and I may even be able to offer a sympathetic ear! You never know I just might be able to help.

I must iterate that any advice is non medical advice. I may not have the whole story or may be unaware of certain past or present issues especially due to omittance. Therefore any advice given must be thought through before acting upon. I cannot be held responsible if any misunderstandings or further problems occur as a result of a misunderstanding or from my advice. I urge you to seek professional help where necessary such as legal, medical or even psychological if the issue if life threatening, dangerous or simply too big for you to handle.

Having said that, I do hope that I can help you with any problems or dilemmas you may have.

Cupid

In Roman mythology Cupid is the god of Love. In popular culture Cupid is known with a bow and arrows to hit the hearts of people to fill them with love. And this site is inspired by Cupid, god of Love.

May you be filled with love and happiness to.