Will I find love?

“I am 29. I have been through a series of failed relationships. I find it so hard to date too. Sometimes I think I am destined to be alone. Will I ever find love?”

At 29 you are still young. There is still plenty of time to find a partner and love. But there is more to it than that.

First of all, love grows. You don’t find love, you invest in love.

Dating is never easy. Not at 15 or 25 or 35 or even 75! When you date you are putting your emotions into someone else’s hands. You are trusting your feelings with someone you barely know. You are learning each other. And very probably your partner feels exactly the same way. Do talk to each other and it will get easier.

And if you are not yet in the dating stage, do not expect for a relationship to fall into place instantly. It rarely does. You have to build a relationship. Go out, meet friends. Get your friends to bring new friends along and you never know you might find yourself playing the dating game.

Good Luck.

8th Anniversary

It is our 8th Wedding Anniversary. To be truthful, I never thought I would ever be here. I used to be rather cynical of Love.

It has taken a bit of take and a lot of give. But if you learn the meaning of share (not equally of course – you give more than you get), then having a relationship almost becomes a piece of cake.

Honestly, if I can be married for 8 years anyone can do it. I really am not the easiest person to live with. You would be surprised how often I find I almost cannot live with myself!! (I admit I am over exagerating a tad!!)