Cupidopolis

“I am 29. I have been through a series of failed relationships. I find it so hard to date too. Sometimes I think I am destined to be alone. Will I ever find love?”

At 29 you are still young. There is still plenty of time to find a partner and love. But there is more to it than that.

First of all, love grows. You don’t find love, you invest in love.

Dating is never easy. Not at 15 or 25 or 35 or even 75! When you date you are putting your emotions into someone else’s hands. You are trusting your feelings with someone you barely know. You are learning each other. And very probably your partner feels exactly the same way. Do talk to each other and it will get easier.

And if you are not yet in the dating stage, do not expect for a relationship to fall into place instantly. It rarely does. You have to build a relationship. Go out, meet friends. Get your friends to bring new friends along and you never know you might find yourself playing the dating game.

Good Luck.

It is our 8th Wedding Anniversary. To be truthful, I never thought I would ever be here. I used to be rather cynical of Love.

It has taken a bit of take and a lot of give. But if you learn the meaning of share (not equally of course - you give more than you get), then having a relationship almost becomes a piece of cake.

Honestly, if I can be married for 8 years anyone can do it. I really am not the easiest person to live with. You would be surprised how often I find I almost cannot live with myself!! (I admit I am over exagerating a tad!!)

“Can you answer my question personally and not on the website?”

I am not currently in a position to answer emails and problems personally. Currently all questions responses and will be posted on Cupidopolis.

I will look into answering personal emails in the future but not in the very near future. I do apologize for not being able to help otherwise.

“I am so bored. I am almost looking forward to school next week. There is nothing to do and I am so bored.”

First of all summer holidays all too soon come to an end. Unfortunately there is very little that you can do at this point, but for next year do consider a part-time summer job. It will keep you from boredom and even earn you some spending money. Do remember boredom makes for idle hands which can lead to trouble.

Try to do something new or learn something new. Take up a hobby or some sport. You will find out that being kept busy will ensure you do not get bored.

I know it does not sound anything like what you want to hear but honestly it is probably the best advice you can get.

Do you believe in Love?

Do you have a good relationship?

What are the highlights in your relationship? And the downsides?

Are you married? Or going to get married? Or do you never want to get married?

Let me know who my readers are. I want to adapt my website for my visitors.

I am afraid that at present I am unable to enter into personal correspondance. All questions and advice is subject to being published here at Cupidopolis. I will not publish your email addresses, but I will need your email to advise you that your question has been responded to. However, do feel free to use Nom de Plumes or Nicknames.