Cupidopolis

“I have been told that I must wear specs. I am too afraid to wear lenses and I really do not want to wear glasses as I will look ugly!”.

Let us take things one step at a time. You can ask your optician in future to show you how to wear lenses. Do not be afraid as it is quite normal to feel hesitant when you try something new and scary. It gets easier with practise.

But meanwhile who said you would look ugly with specs? You can get some pretty funky specs nowadays. In fact you can get some pretty incredible stylish new frames from Zenni such as Zenni Optical $ 8 Rx Eyeglasses. And at only $8 you won’t mind if you do overcome your fear of lenses and start using lenses.

Wearing specs is the latest thing to do. Celebrities including the following have all been seen wearing specs. And if they make it look cool, then you can be sure that everyone will want to be wearing specs!

• Anastacia
• Jennifer Aniston
• Michelle Pfiffer
• Ronan Keating
• Sophia Loren
• Demi Moore
• Kylie
• Chris Evans
• Anne Robinson
• Ralph Schumacher
• Harry Hill
• Vic Reeves
• Austin Powers
• Harry Potter
• Ruby Wax
• Elton John
• David Beckham

Do you need more to prove that wearing glasses is not uncool? Well Zenni Optical was on FOX News, does not prove that specs are news?

Time is the best healer of all. I know that the last thing you want anyone to say is “time is a great healer”, but truly it is.

When dealing with issues we need to learn to accept our mistakes and learn from them. We need to forgive the people who hurt us in order to accept things. And last but not least it is Time that will ease the pain and help us accept.

With grief there are stages we have to go through, but for everything else, it is all about acceptance. And for both… it takes TIME!

It is not unheard of that a person finds out that a child they thought was theirs, is not actually their biological child. This does not mean that the child is no longer theirs. The child will know the parent as their parent and the love a child has for their parents knows no limit. Often these hurt parents retaliate by abandoning the kids but this means that the child gets hurt in the process.

The child might not be biologically theirs but before they knew that the child was not biologically theirs, did they not grow to love the child? Seeing it from a different perspective, an adopted child is not biologically the adoptive parents but do they love them any less… NO! So essentially there is no difference.

The thing to remember is the child is the one who will be hurt the most by the whole situation.