Is he unfaithful?

Posted on Thursday 8 January 2009

“My husband takes off his wedding ring when he comes home. He says mens jewelry annoy him. Do you think he is being unfaithful?”

If it were the other way around, where he took his rings off when he went out, I might say perhaps. But his taking it off at home may simply be that it is true that wearing jewelry might not be his thing. The fact is that he wears it when he goes out and this is probably his way of showing his respect towards you by wearing his wedding ring. Stop worrying about his being unfaithful and enjoy the fact that he wants to show the world that he is married to you.

camille @ 12:50 am
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Fit for Life

Posted on Monday 5 January 2009

The New Year often signifies new beginnings for us. It is an opportunity to rethink our lives and promise ourselves to fix what we think needs to be improved upon. Hence New Years Resolutions. I think a resolution is always a good thing. It need not be done just at new year but at anytime of year. A resolution is exactly what it implies – resolve to maintain something.

In today’s day and age we are all health & greenĀ focused and it would not be unusual to find that most resolutions will be health focused or world focused. Now it is all very well to say that as of today, I will eat my 5 a day every day, walk everywhere and catch buses instead of drive, quit smoking and drinking and lose weight in the process. Truth is if you currently don’t do any of these, well suddenly doing all this will be an impossible chore. If you actually manage to maintain your resolution until the end of the week I would be majorly impressed. It is always far better to chose one resolution and stick by it no matter what, even when the going gets tough. And it will get tough. After all, if it were easy, you would not need to strengthen your resolve. And only when it has become part and parcel, should you attempt to add another resolution. And if you think you cracked it in a week… think again! The minimum amount of time it will take before it can be considered habitual is 9 weeks. Having said that I believe it is better to be prudent and give it a minimum of 3 months. And even then you need to keep a watchful eye. After all it is always easier to slip into a bad habit. Usually because bad habits taste betters, are easier or simply more fun!!

I wish you the very best with your resolution(s) and hope that your find the strength and perseverance to stick to it!

camille @ 4:49 pm
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Happy New Year

Posted on Thursday 1 January 2009

New Year is time for a new begining. We are all entitled to second chances. So take this moment to grab your second chance now. Set out a resolution and stick to it. Don’t make many and keep none. It is better to make one resolution and stick to it no matter how hard. Your perserverance will pay off.

And in case you read this at some point in the future… now is as good time as any to make a resolution. The trick is to start NOW… not tomorrow… not next week… NOW!!

Good Luck

camille @ 12:01 am
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