Christmas is a time for giving. Giving needs not be material. You do not need to spend money to give. It can really be the thought that counts. Things like Breakfast in bed, a warm bath in candle light, fixing that thing you have been meaning to fix, a surprise picnic, visiting friends and family, etc can really make someones day.
Also remember that Christmas is a time “for giving”. Try to forgive and forget. Use Christmas as an excuse to make peace. If we cannot make peace with our friends and family, how can we expect no wars?
May your Christmas be blessed and full of forgiveness too.